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#Blogtober2019 – Day 27: Getaway

I have mentioned before the fact that this year we’ve not had a holiday.

Last year we went away together for a family wedding. Laurie and I have also gone away together to stay with family, but we’ve not done a break which is just the three of us. Yet.

We’re planning a holiday away next year.

Which means that I’ve got a little over six months to prepare for it. This sounds like a lot of time, but I have a horrible feeling that it’ll end up not being nearly enough time. I mean it’s too early to start packing yet, but there’s still a lot that will need to be done before we go.

Little things, like planning what we’ll take in the car to entertain the Noodle. When we went to Wales last year we broke the trip up with an overnight stay in a hotel halfway down the country (luxury of going away whilst on Maternity Leave, no need to worry about booking holiday days for time off), this time we’ll be doing it in the one because it’s closer, but that also means a day’s travelling to keep a toddler occupied through.

Laurie driving car

There’s figuring out where we’ll stop to take breaks along the way. On the one hand, we’ll be flexible and if someone needs a nappy change then you can bet we’ll be stopping at the next services. But if we’re just wanting a break to stretch our legs, then we’ll want to stop at a place that will be toddler friendly.

Then there’s the stuff to take to keep him happy while we’re away. We’re lucky in that he’s a fairly easy to entertain kid. But we’ll need to bring Peter Rabbit and probably Winnie the Pooh for bedtime. At the moment he’s got a very strong attachment to the panda I knitted him the other week. Should that go on the list? Or will he have moved on by the time we’re away? Will I think he’s moved on and then have to frantically knit a new panda when we arrive and he reveals that he’s not moved on at all?!

And there’s also sleeping arrangements to work out.

Laurie at Baby Sensory

It’s a caravan holiday which means that there’s not a lot of space in the bed. And we bedshare. I’m optimistically planning to take the bedguard from the side of our bed, but I suspect we won’t know who’ll sleep where until we actually arrive. Will Laurie be happy in his own mini caravan bed? Will he want to be with us when he’s in a strange new place? Shall I just boot the spousal unit into one of the twin beds and claim the double for the Noodle and I?

That’s one I’m not planning on even thinking about until we arrive and I suspect we’ll handle it the way we handle most other parenting dilemmas; what’s the easiest and most natural thing to do in this moment? It’s an approach that’s rarely failed us before!

The final thing I’m thinking of is what to do while we’re away? We want to find places that Laurie will enjoy visiting, we want to get a chance to rest and relax ourselves, and perhaps most exciting of all, we want to meet up with some of the people from the online baby group that I’m in, so we have to factor that in too.

Laurie enjoying swing

I don’t remember spending this much time thinking about the preparations for the last solo trip I took with the spousal unit. I was pregnant at that time and my biggest worry was having enough bags for throwing up into, and a big enough stash of Dandelion & Burdock drink and aniseed balls to suck! I knew that pretty much all I wanted to do when I arrived was sleep and avoid moving around too much, so this trip away with Laurence and his dad is an entirely different kettle of fish.

You can bet I’ll share all about it here when we return, but in the meantime, any hints and tips about travelling with a toddler will be greatly appreciated.

This post is part of a series for Blogtober 2019. You can see my list of prompts below:

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#Blogtober2019 – Day 23: Worst Weather

Living on an island, our lives are ruled by the weather, specifically the weather that impacts the running of the ferries that serve the island.

This affects everything, from the transport of deliveries onto the island, to being able to get off the island for shopping trips, holidays, and, you guessed it, IVF-related hospital appointments.

Laurie with cattle

With our first two fresh cycles, we were careful to schedule our treatment for the summer months to better avoid the disruption caused by bad weather. During a fresh cycle there can be appointments every other day to check blood levels, follicle growth and lining development, so you need to know that you’ll reliably be able to get to them. At the end of a fresh cycle you take an injection which gives you 36-38 hours before your eggs need to be collected; if you are delayed too long, the whole cycle could be cancelled.

For both egg collections, we booked a hotel on the mainland for the night before because nothing was going to stop us from getting to that!

When our first fresh transfer failed, we decided to throw caution to the wind and try another round during September/October. Ironically after 75% of our summer appointments had been subject to disruption on the ferries, only one single appointment was affected by a delay on the boats during that autumn round.

With Laurie’s round we knew it was the last one and we decided to go all out and start it in January; a risky move considering we’d previously written off the idea of doing any treatment between October and March because of the weather situation. To be honest, I wasn’t expecting them to be able to book us in when I called up that January. I was sure that with delays (and let’s face it, waiting for my body to do what it needed to do) that it would push us back into March. Instead we were having collection on the 13th of February after only a week of stimming injections!

I was certain that the weather would cause problems during that round. I was convinced that I would have to call the hospital up to let them know we couldn’t come in. Or that we’d end up having to get to the mainland by some roundabout route in order to get the meds that we needed.

As it happened, we ended up needing to go to the mainland almost daily during that last push towards egg collection. I remember feeling vaguely embarrassed as we travelled home from an appointment on the Friday and I called work up to apologise that I wouldn’t be in on the Monday as I’d be having my op and would want a couple of days off after to recover, and that was after barely being in during the week before as well!

Laurie mans the helm

I frantically checked the ferries and the weather forecast with each day as I tried to anticipate when we’d be needing to travel. I pretty much lived on hotel booking websites during that week.

And what do you know? On the day before egg collection, we got up intending to catch the first ferry off the island (8am on the weekend) and it was cancelled!

Even though we couldn’t check into the hotel until 2pm, we thought we’d make sure we got away on the first boat so that if there was any disruption, we’d have the later boats to catch.

And was it the weather that caused the problem?

Nope. One of the two ferries had broken down. And it had broken down where any replacement boat would need to dock to load and unload. So there was no option for travelling that way until they could get the poorly boat moved!

Thankfully there’s a smaller ferry which serves a different part of the island. So we took that, and had a two hour drive to Glasgow instead (not the most comfortable of journeys when your ovaries each resemble a large bunch of grapes). But we made it. And the weather was, for once, not to blame for the disruption!

This post is part of a series for the Blogtober 2019 challenge. You can see my prompts below:

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Has the weather played a part in disrupting your big plans? Or did you expect it to, then get a surprise when something else caused a problem instead?

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#Blogtober2019 – Day 22: Day tripping

This year we didn’t get to have a family holiday away together.

Laurence and I took a trip to Wales to visit family back in May. We have had a trip away for a family wedding when Laurie was four months old last year, but we’ve not had a proper holiday holiday together yet, though we’ve got one scheduled for next year now.

Instead of one big holiday, we’ve had lots of little day trips away. The plan was originally to do this through the summer instead of a summer holiday but it’s been such a good thing for our little family that we’ve kept going as we head through autumn and into winter.

I’ve got every Friday off, so we try to take a trip to the mainland every other week (with alternate weeks spent at home). I foresee that in the winter weather, when the boats are disrupted, we’ll have rather more days when we stay at home.

Laurence loves his trips out and they usually tire him out for the weekend; this weekend was no exception. We took another trip to Funworld in Greenock and I realised far too late that it was the last day of the half term break from school.

Laurie driving car

We were the very first ones in and for a little while I congratulated myself for making the decision not to change our plans. It was so quiet that Laurie had completely free roam of the place and didn’t have to worry about bumping into anyone or waiting for a turn on a toy.

That lasted for all of about twenty minutes and then the place just seemed to explode with sound and there were children everywhere!

Laurie in ride

We survived a whole hour and fifty minutes of our two hour slot before the spousal unit and I decided we couldn’t take it any more and packed up to go find some lunch (and a little bit of quiet). I wouldn’t say it put me off completely, but I’ll definitely be more mindful of local schools’ term times for our future day trips!

Laurie heading into Wean's World

This post is part of a series for the Blogtober 2019 challenge. You can see my prompts below:

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Where are your favourite places to go for day trips? Any hints or tips you’ve acquired along the way?

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#Blogtober2019 – Day 19: The Best Day

The truth is, we have so many wonderful days together, both days out and days in, that it’s hard to say which is exactly the very best day of them all.

Perhaps our very best day would look something like this:

We’d wake up feeling refreshed and ready for the day. There would be no disruption on the boats and we’d sit together excitedly planning our trip ahead. Laurie would probably have us playing musical chairs and would get to charm some ladies seated near us.

Our trip out would be to somewhere not too far away, but perhaps just enough of a distance to give Laurie a nap on the way. That way he’d be all full of energy and ready to go when we arrived.

Wherever we are going on our imaginary best day, we’d have a snack when we arrived; either something we’d brought ourselves, or something they could provide. This would allow us all to feel refuelled and we’d then head out to see the place we’d be spending the day.

Laurie eating ice cream

The place we would go to would have lots of things for Laurie to see and get involved with, like at the Science Centre. We would have things to look at and do as well, but it would be at a happy medium level where Laurie could get some benefit from the day as well. If there are staff standing by, they would be able to engage Laurie and draw him in to take part in activities or have a go at taking part. He loves being able to touch things or move things, especially if there are older children who are getting to be involved; he doesn’t seem to realise how much younger he is!

Laurie is massively into animals right now, so there would almost definitely be animals at this place we are visiting. Once again, he’d want to be able to get up close to them, talk to them and maybe even stroke one or two. If those animals were dogs, Laurence would be in his element. If there was an opportunity to give a rat a cuddle, I’d be in my element too.

Laurie mans the helm

Come lunch time and we would find a nice place to eat at our attraction. The food would be tasty and filling with plenty of choice on the menu (particularly the one aimed at smaller visitors). There would be lots of different seating options as well, perhaps highchairs for the teeny tinies and booster seats for the older ones who are getting far too long in the leg to fit many highchairs you get in restaurants. If there was an all-you-can-eat buffet option, we’d definitely go all in for that.

Laurie eating chicken ball

We would maybe spent the afternoon indulging in one of Laurie’s interests; perhaps looking at different vehicles, meeting some dogs, or getting to look at a massive pile of books. I’d definitely be in favour of those last two. It would’ve been a busy day by this point so a refuelling stop for some cake or biscuits wouldn’t go amiss either.

By this point we would need to be thinking about heading back, but perhaps we’d get to have a spot of charity shopping, or mooching round a secondhand bookshop on the way back. If we could all come away with a little treat, it would round the day off nicely.

Getting back to the ferry just as a boat is pulling in, rather than away, would allow us to finish the day without a long wait for the boat, and a smooth crossing would be an added bonus.

And then we’d be back home in time to pick up Tara from the kennels and grab a bite to eat, before snuggling up in bed with a movie (that we’d probably all fall asleep in front of).

Laurie burying daddy

The funny thing is, this day describes many of our trips off the island. It could be our recent trip to Funworld or to Ayr earlier in the year. It’s virtually a complete description of our trip to Heads of Ayr Farm Park last month (a trip that I’m yet to blog about). We’ve fallen into a good routine for our days out and it turns out that it’s making for some pretty good days out; no wonder it’s so hard to pick which of them is the best one!

This blog post is part of a series for Blogtober 2019. You can see my full list of prompts below:

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What would your best day out look like? Have you been lucky enough to experience it or is it still a pipe dream?

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#Blogtober2019 – Day 11: Let’s Go Outside

In 2016 I set myself a challenge of ‘walking to Rivendell’. Basically someone calculated the mileage covered in The Lord of the Rings when Frodo and the gang walk from Hobbiton to Rivendell (458 miles, if you’re curious) and I set out to do the same in a series of walks through the year.

Every time I went on a Middle-earth walk, I tracked it, until halfway through December when I completed my challenge.

I’d planned to do the next leg of the journey (Rivendell to Moria, approximately 340 miles to the Doors of Moria) through the following year. But things didn’t quite work out that way.

In the January we started our third (and final) fresh round of IVF. We had our egg collection halfway through February, I recovered from that and was just starting to pick it up again, when we hit April and we started preparing for the frozen embryo transfer round that brought us Laurie.

The hormones involved in IVF treatment can do funny things to your body; you can feel headachey, emotional, your uterus and ovaries feel different. Medications also have to be taken at specific times, which can be a bit impractical if you’re planning a quick two mile walk after work; one of the meds I was on required me to lie down for 20-30 minutes after taking it, meaning that 6:30am or 6:30pm activities were completely off the cards.

So walking didn’t happen much from April onwards.

After the embryo transfer on the 25th of May, I felt like I was made of glass. I’ve done transfers where I’ve rested afterwards and I’ve done transfers when I’ve gone on as normal; the ones where I’ve rested were the ones where I had the most success, so with Laurie’s round, I rested.

And then from June onwards I pretty much threw up until the end of 2017 (and then into the first month and five days of 2018 as well). Once I was about six or seven months pregnant we were able to take the occasional shuffle ‘to the bump and back’ (a family landmark down the road from our house). But other than that, my efforts to walk from Rivendell to Moria went sadly abandoned. Just as well I wasn’t the one responsible for getting a small gold trinket into a fiery chasm!

Laurie taking a walk

But now Laurie is definitely more mobile and a good walk tires him out and we live somewhere really beautiful, that we try to go for at least a couple of walks a week. The fact that the evenings are drawing in now means we’ll be a little more limited on our walks, but in the next few years I’m hoping I’ll get back into my walking again.

And maybe this time I’ll have a little travelling companion to walk alongside of me.

This blog post is part of a series for Blogtober 2019. You can see the prompts I’m using below:

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Do you enjoy spending time outdoors? Have you ever taken part in a walking (or other outdoor) challenge?

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#Blogtober2019 – Day 5: Something to eat

I saw a post on Facebook the other day which was along the lines of ‘adulthood is realising that you have to decide what to cook for dinner every night’. I think it stuck with me, because it’s true.

I’m very lucky in that Laurence is not an especially fussy child. There’s certain foods that he favours over others; mini cheddars will always be top of his list and given the option he’d probably eat them for breakfast, lunch and tea. He doesn’t seem to be especially fond of tomatoes, which isn’t a huge surprise to me since they make my mouth feel very uncomfortable (and I wonder if he experiences a touch of the same).

But one of those things that no one really mentioned when they discussed parenting stuff was the fact that you have to come up with meals to feed the child. Every day!

Laurie eating chicken ball

I feel the need to be slightly more varied in Laurie’s diet than I would be with my own. I’d happily eat spaghetti, meatballs and cheese three times a week, but I’m fully aware that my son needs foods with a little more nutritional value than that. So since having him, I probably eat a little more healthily than I did before.

I also cook more too.

And I’m not a cook!

But there was something about realising I had to provide for this little person that made me look up things like ‘how to make sweet potato fries’ and ‘healthy biscuits’ and various other things. I’m embarrassed to admit how many attempts it took to get the perfect soft boiled egg for him!

I cook. But I don’t love it.

Since having the boy, I have to admit, we eat out rather a lot more than we did pre-child. This is mainly because we wanted to get the little man plenty of experience of eating out, so he got the hang of how to behave while we were in restaurants and cafes. It’s also because we take him on lots of days out and while taking a packed lunch is practical, we live on an island so the variety of places you get to eat in the city means a meal out can be a bit of a treat.

Laurie eating ice cream

I like to think that we’re giving the Noodle opportunities to expand his pallet but he’s a typical 20 month old right now. I think the following points sum him up quite well:

  1. Cheese is life.
  2. Mini cheddars are basically cheese and crackers smushed into one and are therefore like cheese but better.
  3. Orange segments are somehow addictive; he can’t just have one.
  4. If the same item of food is on the toddler’s plate and someone else’s plate, the piece on the other person’s plate is vastly superior to their own.
  5. If all else fails, the labrador will eat it.

As much as I try to keep giving him plenty of variety, and give him a graze plate each date with lots of different tastes and textures, I can pretty much guarantee that he will eat the cheese or mini cheddars, he will inhale the orange segments, he will beg toast fingers off of my plate while ignoring those on his own, and even if I think I’ve made the best plate there could ever be, he’ll still want to feed half of it to Tara!

And I guess that’s just life with a toddler. I’m pretty sure that in the future we’ll have fussy phases where he wants to eat nothing, phases where he’ll request foods only to turn his nose up at them once they’re prepared, and phases where he only wants sugar.

I’m pretty certain I can ride all of those out.

I just need to get better at figuring out what to do for tea each night!

This blog post is for day 5 of the Blogtober 2019 blogging challenge. See my prompts below:

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How do you decide what to cook for tea each night? Any tales of feeding toddlers (or humans of other ages)?

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Visit to Funworld, Greenock

For the longest time Funworld in Greenock was this mythical place to me. My friends and colleagues spoke of taking their children there but what it was actually like was unknown to me. We drove past it occasionally, but not having a small person of our own to take there, it remained an enigma. I knew very little about it, besides the fact that it’s a soft play place.

When we took the Noodle there for the first time right before he turned one, it was as much to give me the chance to see what all the fuss was about as it was for his benefit.

Our original plan for the Friday when we took him to Funworld was actually to return to the Sea Life Centre at Loch Lomond that we visited last year, but we decided we wanted something a little cheaper to save some funds for an upcoming trip to Heads of Ayr Park instead. Funworld seemed like a great (and cheap) alternative.

We were able to catch the bus from the stop at the ferry terminal which dropped us at Eldon Street, right outside Funworld. The last time we went, we took the car, but using the bus this time has proved that’s unnecessary and it’s a lot more cost efficient to use the bus (not to mention environmentally friendly).

We arrived at Funworld a little before 10:30am. If you have a toddler and arrive before 11am during term time then you get a free drink and biscuits with your entry fee; last time we went Laurie wasn’t yet walking so he got in for free and we paid £1 for each of the three adults. This time he cost us £5.35, bringing our total cost of entry to £7.35. With this he got two hours of play, along with a coffee for his dad, a tea for me, a juice for Laurie, and three biscuits between us.

 

Once inside, there’s an area with ample seating, a large play frame in the shape of a pirate ship and slides for the older children, an under-3s play area, a cart track, a couple of inflatables, and an area called Wean’s World with dress up and imaginary play areas. There’s also a reasonably priced cafe where you can claim your free refreshments with your entry ticket and even get a cooked meal as well. The venue has free wifi as well, so you can share your fun with everyone on your social media, or crack on with some work or studying while the kids play.

Wean's World Sign

Within minutes of arriving, we were all shoeless, in our socks and in the under-3s play area. There was one child there who was younger than Laurie and several who were older; I suspect that at least one of them was at the upper limit for playing in the under-3s area and I did have to pull on my Mama Bear voice and sternly ask one of them to stop throwing ballpit balls around because one of the littler ones could get hurt. Aside from that, it was wonderfully quiet.

We went on the first Friday back at school for most of the local schools, meaning it was very quiet; quieter than when we went back in February. It meant that Laurie basically had the free run of the place. I don’t think he had to share Wean’s World with anyone the whole time we were there and at times he was the only child in the under-3s area.

 

I was sure that this time around he would be all over the climbing frame. He was quite interested in it last time but was too small to be able to climb himself. Right now he seems to spend all his time climbing on the sofa, the stairs, the bed, the stairgates, and anything else he can scramble up or heave himself onto.

He went on the climbing frame once. I lifted him up onto the first level and he climbed onto the second, giggled at me through the netting and then decided to come down. He point blank refused to go up it again. I got him to explore underneath it once, then he burst into tears and crawled away. I suspect the whole place was a little overwhelming to him, hopefully with more visits it’ll feel more familiar and he’ll be more inclined to actually play on the soft play equipment.

Laurie in ride

 

As before, he loved the ballpit and spent a great deal of time collecting the balls that other children had thrown out to put back into it. It was quicker work now he’s walking (compared to trying to do it on all fours as he did six months ago). He also loved the toys. The first thing he went for was the pink version of the babywalker we have at home, to which his dad quipped “we didn’t bring you all this way to play with toys you’ve got at home!” Laurie also enjoyed playing with a little glockenspiel, shopping baskets and a push along elephant toy.

 

I did notice a slight difference between our visit this time and the one earlier in the year; at the start of the year the toys with batteries worked. This time there were several toys with buttons to press that did nothing. I suspect that Funworld is maybe getting to grips with the aftermath of a busy summer holiday period.

There also seemed to be slightly less in Wean’s World, I couldn’t tell you exactly what was missing, but the little imaginative play areas seemed slightly emptier than when we were there before. The construction site seemed to have everything, but one little area just had a toy kitchen and another larger toy, but no utensils or toy food which they had there before.

Wean's World Toys

I imagine that it’s a bit of a job to stay on top of what’s working and what’s needing replaced and after the school holidays this is probably the time when things start getting reorganised. I’m sure if we go there again in another month or so, things will look different again.

At the moment we venture off the island every two weeks, but as the weather gets worse and the ferries become more unreliable we’re aware that we might not be able to go so far afield. I suspect that Funworld will become a regular destination; it’s far enough away to feel like a day out, but close enough to home that it’s not a problem if we need to leave early.

Laurie heading into Wean's World

 

You’ll probably see more photos and blog posts about our visits here in the future.

I didn’t receive any compensation for this review; we took the Noodle to Funworld for a day out, had a great time and I just wanted to share.